Warning: You could be killing your relationships without even knowing it…

“The 12 Communication Killers That Mutilate Relationships – And What To Do About Them… ”

The First Section: Judging (Chapters 1-4)

The judging section contains the first four communication barriers: criticizing, labeling, diagnosing, and praising.

Here are a few techniques you are going to discover in this section:

• How to play psychological judo and absorb ANY mental or emotional force someone throws at you… and convert it into a force that wins you their friendship (Learn the gentle and effective way of WINNING with people) – pg. 24
• Do you want to become psychic so you can read someone’s mind? This theory, explained by psychologists, is the next best technique to MIND-READING – pg. 67
• The single greatest piece of advice to change people (Use this principle applied by the world’s greatest leaders – like Dalai Lama, Barack Obama, and Sonia Gandhi – to change people) – pg. 36
• Why criticizing someone is not their problem, but is 100% your problem (The hidden truth that your criticism is the “cancer” while their problem is a “cold”) – pg. 22
• 5 step exercise you can do ANYTIME by yourself to solve a relationship or personal problem… In this case, it doesn’t take two to tango (An exercise used by the world’s greatest life coaches to achieve their goals regardless of other people and their circumstances) – pgs. 32 & 33
• The 4 questions you MUST ask yourself EVERYTIME before giving feedback otherwise you’ll start a fight or have the person quietly resent you – pg. 34
• How to make “emotional deposits” into a person’s “relationship bank” so you get a great return on investment in the form of love (Hint: This is not about being nice to people) – pg. 28
• How to eliminate tidal waves crashing your life by transforming the destruction into waves for you to surf towards intimate relationships (Take advantage of those big problems that crash-down intimacy and love in your relationships) – pg. 30
• How to COPE with, and CHANGE, people in more powerful positions than you, like a boss or controlling parent (A lesson from a 16th century poet in dealing with the Pope’s poetry) – pg. 42
• How to become CONFIDENT and free yourself from what other people think of you… At last, delete that evil voice that worries about people’s judgments – pg. 27
• 8 “do or die” communication tips to give successful feedback and PERMANENTLY change a person’s behavior (Your guide to help people grow!) – pgs. 35-39
• One QUICK tip to INSTANTLY reduce the emotional intensity of any difficulty so you keep calm in an emotional storm – pg. 39
• A simple, complete map is given to you detailing possible paths, including hidden backroads, that affect how people understand what you say (This is your solution if you’ve ever wondered why people don’t understand what you intended to say) – pg. 46
• The golden-rule of ALL relationships is a complete lie (Why treating people the way you would like to be treated is fools gold… and what you must do to start mining real gold in relationships) – pg. 50
• 3 answers explaining why people use “undercover” behaviors behind your back to secretly sabotage your reputation – pgs. 51-53
• 7 reasons people label and the appropriate solutions of each reason to completely eliminate this communication barrier and make it your communication secret (Get the right unique solution to solve this communication problem) – pgs. 53-55
• How to communicate at a powerful, subconscious level most people don’t see, but everyone INSTANTLY feels – pg. 56
• How to get people seeing the BEST parts of your personality without bragging – pg. 60
• Why playing the “relationship healer” is doing your relationships more harm than good (Women are often known to have this good intention, but they kill their relationships in the process) – pg. 67
• A safe technique to “swat away” a persistent, bugging person… without causing any “blood stains” – pg. 104
• What communication gurus and psychologists can’t reveal to you that will help you CLEARLY understand people – pgs. 71 & 72
• What women do that STOPS men from commitment and returning their love – pg. 75
• A technique to FOREVER remain compatible with your partner so your love never expires (Update your “mental software” so you never go “out-of-date” with your partner) – pgs. 80 & 81
• Why your relationship is set to sink faster than the Titanic before you speak one word (I’ve never heard of this in any book, tape, DVD, or seminar) – pg. 80
• How to stop relationship gambling by guessing relationship problems… and finally learn to win this game of chance (Put the odds greatly in your favor where others are losing out big-time) – pg. 73
• 6 recent research studies by renowned developmental psychologist proves compliments, praise, and other nice words HURT children… The horrifying truth about this scary phenomena parenting and management experts have been lieing to you for decades – pg. 90
• How to stop a person from rejecting your praise through statements like “It was nothing” or “You should thank others instead”… Overcome this frustrating situation where you try to help someone, but you get “pushed back” – pg. 104
• The magical formula to make any praise, compliment, and encouragement, sincere, honest, and happily accepted – pg. 100
• A life-changing exercise that will have you workout your praising muscles to become a strong, people magnet – pg. 109
• How to ENERGIZE your mind and feel good ANYTIME someone treats you poorly (Tolerate bad people, develop a lively personality, and “rise above” emotional pain people place on you… without positive-thinking) – pg. 69
• A GUARANTEED tactic, adapted from telecommunications in World War I, to charm people and take them “off their feet”… without saying or doing anything to them – pg. 105

The Second Section: Solving (Chapters 5-9)

The five solving barriers are ordering, threatening, questioning, moralizing, and advising.

Here’s a sample of what you get in the second section:

• My EXACT system I use to talk to ANYONE about ANYTHING – pgs. 174-179
• How to create an army of loyal followers that want to be guided by your leadership (Most managers, leaders, and parents do the exact opposite to have their team turn on them in friendly-fire) – pg. 117
• A fundamental law of physics that will supercharge your ability to get people doing what you want – pg. 119
• A psychologist from Duke University has a counter-intuitive revelation as he discovers why order and control creates disorder and no control – pg. 120
• Why an anti-tobacco company accidentally INCREASED teen smoking with their “Think. Don’t Smoke.” advertising campaign… and how you’re accidentally making people do what you don’t want them to do – pg. 120
• 4 tips gained from a study on college students in an exam to make people feel less threatened by you and get them liking you – pgs. 122 & 123
• Signs and solutions of passive-aggressive behavior in people to eliminate this frustrating behavior, where people say they’ll comply with you but they don’t – pg. 124
• The one question you must ask yourself to determine if aggressive behavior is good (Your simple question to safely play with verbal fire) – pg. 129
• Why “old school” techniques like aggression are inferior to “new school” techniques discovered by world-leading psychologists that bring about lasting changing – pgs. 126 & 127
• Express yourself and get people to do what YOU want with this clear, four-step technique (Your template to assertive-persuasion) – pgs. 130 & 131
• Why assertive skills are DANGEROUS and the lies communication skills trainers have been telling you about assertion (Includes a bonus technique to stop driving a one-foot knife into your relationships when you assert yourself) – pg. 128
• How to effortlessly get what you want (A lesson from Mother Teresa on how she stopped violence without fighting against the violence) – pg. 135
• How to EASILY change your emotions at WILL (Most people do the exact opposite and end up increasing the intensity of negative emotions like fear and worry) – pg. 137
• How to get what you want in the short-term and long-term (Most persuasion experts only reveal to you how to get what you want in the short-term causing you to suffer in the long-term) – pg. 146
• Why traditional behavioral changing techniques, like reward and punishment, are inferior (Techniques that train your dog aren’t effective for changing human behavior) – pg. 147
• How to create conversational bait that people cannot resist devouring to get them talking so you can sit back, relax, and enjoy great conversations – pg. 180
• If you feel people are scared to talk with you, here’s why… – pg. 147
• 4 SIMPLE ways to QUICKLY change someone’s behavior – pgs. 148 & 149
• How to ethically exploit our stereotypical tendencies to your persuasive benefit – pg. 152
• A covert technique to secretly change someone’s mind without them even noticing! – pg. 153
• 4 persuasion lessons from the FBI in over 100 hostage negotiations (Free yourself from hostage takers) – pg. 155
• 6 personality characteristics of top secret American interrogators that you can develop to extract the information you want from your “suspect” – pg. 156
• How to keep your cool with these 7 listening skills from an FBI chief negotiator in crisis situations – pgs. 157 & 158
• How to KEEP getting what you want… There’s no need to stop once you get one thing you want (Napoleon Bonaparte ignored this, which ultimately destroyed the French emperor’s reign of power) – pg. 159
• The greatest myth about questioning… why questions actually KILL a conversation and throw your relationship into the grave – pg. 167
• Stop hammering nail after nail into your relationship by trying to communicate more (This is your DEFINITE answer as to why you fail each time in getting someone to open up and communicate with you) – pg.
• Make this error and you can expect your relationships to shut down faster than poorly designed software (Get your relationships running smoothly with no testing needed) – pg. 170
• Ever felt like you were squeezing blood from a stone when asking someone questions and all they gave you was short answers? Here’s why… – pg. 173
• How to keep any conversation going and stop those awkward moments of silence… This technique will be your “life jacket” frequently saving you from drowning conversations (Hint: the technique is not questioning) – pg. 179
• 13 gems of advice for asking better questions to EFFECTIVELY mine information from people – pgs. 183 & 184
• 7 models of questioning to change people’s minds… and improve your own mind – pgs. 185 & 186
• How moralizing tears-out the “roots” of a relationship while morals embed deep-roots to STRENGTHEN a couple’s relationship (The small difference between morals and moralizing has enormous effects on your relationships) – pg. 197
• How to stop hostile relationships where you or your partner is a nitty-picker finding little faults in the other person that gradually destroys relationship-happiness (You will reignite a PASSIONATE love despite the faults we all have that will NEVER go away) – pgs. 199 & 200
• A simple persuasive technique for your everyday communication to get people doing what you want from Christians that successfully fought against a Californian nudist beach.. without resorting to moralizing – pg. 211
• When a person accepts what you say, happily nods to what you say, and is in agreement with what you say, covers up his or her true feelings and completely DISAGREES with you (You’ll be surprised why this happens, but it’ll make perfect sense once you know why) – pg. 204
• What a woman can do to open up her man for more LOVE and CONNECTION (Women will moralize to their man with statements like “you should talk to me about your problems” but this often makes the man more determined to avoid talking) – pg. 211
• At last, how to get someone SELF-MOTIVATED so they do what needs to be done on their own without you having to constantly tell them what to do – pgs. 212 & 213
• How to BECOME SELF-MOTIVATED to achieve what you want – pgs. 214 & 215
• Why people who need your advice the most are the ones who like it the least – pg. 225
• I know you give people advice with good intentions to help them, but here is 4 reasons why your “nice present” paper wraps a relationship-explosive bomb (Don’t let this gimmick device explode in somebody’s face) – pgs. 230 & 231
• How to have people gravitate to you for good feelings (Hint: this is not about being “nice” to people, giving compliments, or having a positive energy) -pg. 226
• The childhood secret that explains why men and women are so different… and the exact lessons for each gender to UNDERSTAND one another (Men no longer have to be from Mars and women no longer have to be from Venus) – pgs. 227-229
• One of my favorite communication skills that overcomes the myth that listening to a struggling friend will improve your relationship… discover what you should be doing instead of listening to make your friend love you while helping your friend solve their emotional difficulty – pg. 237
• 2 mind-control techniques to capture people’s attention and get them thinking what you want them to think – pg. 145
• How to go beyond the “tip of the iceberg” to UNDERSTAND 90% of a partner’s problem you normally cannot see (Marriage counselors use this to DEEPLY understand their patients, give correct advice, and heal couples’ relationships) – pg. 240
• The unspoken cry for help when a person asks for your advice… and how to happily wipe away their hidden tears – pg. 237
• How to get a loved one exploring their inner feelings, beliefs, and attitudes so the person is equipped with the right tools to build a LOVING relationship with you – pg. 238
• 2 core principles of parenting from years of developmental research that guarantee you’ll raise a healthy, happy, independent child – pg. 236
• A mind-trick to seduce, sell, or persuade someone without them even knowing they’re “falling for you” – pg. 171
• How to build a strong identity that life’s earthquakes cannot destroy (Remain calm, and get through, disasters life throws at you ) – pg. 234

The Third Section: Avoiding (Chapters 10-12)

The third section is avoiding, and contains three barriers: reasoning, reassuring, and deflecting.

Here’s what you’ll get in the third section:

• An evolutionary and modern-day analysis of the 3 reasons we have ANY relationship with people, from friendship to marriage (You’ll see why few relationships are a roaring fire of PASSION and most are merely a dwindling candle waiting to be extinguished) – pg. 253
• Increase your status and feel important by knowing this secret language spoken by powerful, big players; while people with little status keep their head buried in the sand – pg. 255
• The 13-step quick-guide to boost your emotional intelligence and become smart with people (Pass any test with people by studying this cheat sheet) – pgs. 271-273
• What you MUST do if you’re to keep your desired man or woman FOREVER (Miss this and he or she could go on to his or her next partner) – pg. 259
• A conversational mistake you must avoid more than a plague to prevent the “black death” of your charisma and ability to influence people – pg. 304
• Why empathizing is damaging your health… How a wonderful communication skill is putting your health at risk and what to do to immunize yourself against this problem – pg. 272
• How to never “miss the point” again when someone talks about a confusing problem (Make people happy and feel understood) – pg. 254
• How to “verbally hug” someone in their time of need – pg. 288
• Why happiness and a positive attitude pulls a blind-fold over your relationship making the two of you lose sight of a fulfilling relationship (Students of personal development shoot themselves in the foot with this mistake) – pg. 285
• How to AUTHENTICALLY fulfill someone’s desire for importance to make them feel great – pg. 306
• How to have a STRONG, stable identity to pull people towards you like the Earth’s mass keeps people grounded – pg. 257
• The dirty tactic men use to bypass their lady’s emotions – leaving them feel disconnected and wondering why he doesn’t listen (Know this “manly tactic” and you’ll have your partner listening to you) – pg. 280
• Remain safe, secure, in control of your relationships with the 8 elements of supportive communication that makes you a pillar of strong, stable relationships (Your COMPLETE guide to communication that strengthens people) – pgs. 289-295
• The one word to remove from your language that spikes your kind words into a dangerous verbal mix… and one other word to replace it that will create a recipe where people feel ecstasy towards you – pg. 292
• How to talk about yourself in an INTERESTING way that gets people liking you – pg. 309
• How to “sync up” your thoughts and feelings with your partner’s SECRET desires (A simple technique to give what your partner secretly HUNGERS for)- pg. 307
• What you must START doing TODAY if you’re to have great relationships tomorrow (You’ll get high emotional and relationship returns by investing in this technique today) – pg. 310
• Curiosity killed the cat and will kill your conversations (The shocking truth when interest in another person kills your conversations) – pg. 309
• How to safely rescue someone, who just had their concerns drowned in a group conversation, and get them loving you… while not drowning yourself in the process (Includes a bonus step to receive an EXTRA brownie point and have the group in the conversation unknowingly like you more for what you did) – pg. 314
• If you’ve ever had a mind-freeze where you can’t think of anything to say in a conversation, this is your solution (Hint: the solution is a concept, not a silly technique, to guarantee you can continue a conversation for however long you want) – pg. 305
• The 10 counter-intuitive laws of attraction to attract the partner you deeply desire and KEEP them for LIFE… The laws are also powerful to create animalistic urges in your current partner (The 10 laws will boggle your mind because they’re exactly the opposite of what most romance, relationship, and communication experts teach) – pgs. 262-264

I know that’s a lot of information, which will make you change people’s minds and boost your charisma to build rock-solid relationships. As I said, it took me 2 years and approximately 1000 hours to develop so you can be confident you’ll discover and experience the results you want by investing in the program.

Fortunately for you, there’s more in the program than what I shared above. I’m not sure how excited you are about this program, but you’re going to be more so now with this delicious treat…

My Results-Driven, FREE Gift To You: Communication Secrets of Powerful People Workbook

I didn’t create the program so you can read about how to boost your charisma, increase your persuasion, improve yourself, and improve your relationships. I created it so you would discover the how-to and GET those results. Because of this, I made the “Communication Secrets of Powerful People” ebook practical and created a workbook to get you from learning to being.

Firstly, there a concise summaries of points and skills you need at the end of each chapter. This guarantees you won’t forget what you read about, so you can begin getting the results you want from the program. (Unlike other programs and books where it’s too easy to forget what you read.)

Second – and this is where rubber meets the road – is you’re valuable FREE bonus is a catalyst that is “injected” into the program to speed up your results.

Because this is a program that requires you to work on yourself, this is no magical formula akin to swallowing a weight loss pill to lose fat. You will get results only if you follow the communication skills program.

The workbook is split into three sections: 1) the psychology behind the workbook and how you will get the most out of the program with the bonus mind-tricks and techniques, 2) 41 easy-to-follow exercises, and 3) the 30 day communication secrets journal where you will write down your daily experience with any of the 12 communication barriers.

Briefly, in these sections you’ll discover:

• Psychological short-cuts you can use to feel good about improving your communication and get fast results – pg. 1
• The secrets of LASTING MOTIVATION, further explored from the ebook, to guarantee you get the results you want – pg. 2
• 41 easy-to-follow exercises (3-4 exercises for each of the 12 chapters) that will make the communication skills and advice a part of you so you feel like your natural self and remain comfortable… The exercises are constructed from world-leading communication skills trainers, peak performance gurus, family therapists, psychologists’ work with patients, and my personally effective strategies that make the program FUN (This treasure chest of exercises is your step-by-step guide to becoming the powerful person you want to be and creating the relationships you desire) – pgs. 5-17
• Professionally designed worksheets to journal your progress as you see for yourself how your communication, charisma, persuasion, and relationships quickly improve – pgs. 19-48
• The lazy-man’s method to remove bad habits and start doing what you want to do… for as long as you would like – pg. 18

While most communication skills program only teach you what to do and leave it at that, the Communication Secrets of Powerful People Program, thanks to the workbook, will show you EXACTLY what to do. Instead of learning a bunch of skills you rarely use, you will complete the program and already happily be using the skills, tips, and advice.

All This In The Program Will…

• Have people loving you more from your new ability to intimately understand them
• Win you friends from your new personality that oozes charisma
• “Win” you arguments and fights… and have the other person also feel great (You’ll create win-win results at times you’d previously create win-lose or lose-lose results)
• Win people to your way of thinking
• Have you easily deal with difficult people, manage their defensive and attacking behaviors, and reduce negative emotions
• Help you express yourself so you no longer bottle-up your emotions
• Unleash your NATURAL personality so you don’t need to fake any skills that don’t feel like you
• Make you into a person that attracts the opposite sex… and have the partner you want, want you (You must know this… before it’s too late when you find out your dream partner doesn’t feel the same about you)
• Have you steer any size group of people to where you want them (You will win crowds to your way of thinking and have them sticking up for you)
• Have you spark emotional attraction to MAKE and KEEP your desired partner addicted to you
• Give you pure control of your emotions as you remain calm in the toughest emotional storms
• Cut yourself lose from the chains of manipulative individuals, controlling partners, or bossy managers (You’ll be free from people who control you)
• And much more…

Imagine the surge of confidence you’d always have if you had just one of these abilities. You’d get what you want with people and give them what they want, YOU! This isn’t selfish because people will love you for your charisma, how you understand them, and thank you for helping them get what they emotionally want.

I know this sounds too good to be true, but you know the power of effective communication in your life. Just one little tip you know, like avoiding destructive criticism – which you may have already experienced – wins you friends, improves your relationships, gets people on your side of thinking more easily, and much more. Just imagine what hundreds of these tips and skills I share in my program can do for your life.

Now you know the power packed into the complete communication skills program to amplify your charisma, boost your persuasion skills, and enhance the quality of your relationships, one question remains:

This program may or may not be for you depending on how you meet the criteria below. Either way, it’s okay. I understand the program is not for everyone.

I believe everyone will get a lot out of the program – because everyone communicates, has relationships, and can improve themselves to be a charismatically persuasive individual. Because of this, you can see if the program is for you by seeing if it’s NOT for you.

Who The Program Is Not For:

1. Beginners in personal development or communication skills. Most communication skills and personal development experts teach the same old, beginner material. If you don’t already know basic communication skills, like simple listening skills or how to ask a decent question, the program may be too advanced for you.

The program is filled with never-before-seen techniques and advice on communication, charisma, persuasion, psychology, relationships, and lasting transformation. This is a new program that contains all my recent discoveries from reading, listening, and watching, and talking with world-leading experts in communication and personal development. Though the language used in the program is simple and easy to implement, to get the most out of the program it helps to already know a little about communication and personal development.

2. Someone who is satisfied with his or her life and communication. If you’re one of the rare individuals satisfied with your ability to easily make friends, create quality relationships, remain calm in difficult situations, and influence coworkers and business associates when you want, this program is not for you. If you’re satisfied with what you’ve got, there’s
no point changing what’s working.

If you’re reading this, that shows yourself there is something in your life you’re not satisfied with and you’re searching for a solution.

3. Someone who doesn’t have an open mind. I prefer not to do business with you if you’re such a person. If you’re resistant to learning new techniques and prefer to stick with what you’ve got, please go elsewhere because everything I teach is about crafting you into a better person with PERMANENT change.

Overall: if you don’t already have basic knowledge of some communication skills… if you are satisfied with your life and communication… or if you don’t have an open mind… don’t invest in the program because it’s probably not the one for you.

If you aren’t in the three above categories, like most people who would be reading this, the program is for you.

Once you feel the program will help you, I don’t want you to buy it yet. Before I reveal price of the program, I want to make you feel comfortable by seeing the guarantee you get upon investing in the program. I shoulder ALL the risk…

This leads me to say the entire program is priced at US$97. I’m disappointed I never was able to buy this knowledge for $97. I went through so much pain and learning to bring this system into my life and to others so they can easily have the communication secrets of powerful people.

For the program’s price…

You get all this with the guarantee because I want you to feel safe. The guarantee will reduce any worries you may have about the program.

The money-back guarantee can be claimed with no hassles at anytime during the 365 days, but to take the $194 out of my own pocket you need to e-mail me the simple worksheets you have filled in (which I hope you’ll be doing anyway as part of the program). I’ll then confirm you’ve filled it out to satisfactory standards and help you where necessary before sending you the money. That’s it because I’m confident you will not want a refund once you experience the program’s impact on your personality and people skills.

Another reason I’m offering all this to you is I’m after your testimonial for the program. The $97 investment is a subsidised price for people who act now by getting their copy of the program.

I cannot make this program more of a “no-brainer” investment than I already have. I shoulder ALL the risk. I truly want to make you a charismatic and persuasive people magnet.

From the feedback I’ve been getting, the program works in any culture. It works because the program is based on proven human psychology – regardless of where or who you are.

How Much Are You Willing To Invest In Yourself?

So let me ask you this: What if this knowledge helps you get the success you want with people and yourself?

How much is it worth to you to improve your communication skills? A thousand dollars? Ten thousand? Much more? Most people I know say it’s priceless.

Having tension from poor communication with coworkers causes mistakes, inefficiency, and absenteeism. In your family, it could cause divorce, emotional distance, and fights.

You saw the cost of poor communication for yourself earlier on. You already feel the value of the solution to these problems of yours.

I can’t put a definite value of the information in this book, but I can tell you the program’s price is nothing compared to the 1,000 hours it took me to create over 2 years – along with the emotional pain, fights with loved ones, and frustration from misunderstandings. I don’t want you to go through the same experience to get the communication solutions you’re after when I’ve already found them. You wouldn’t mine for metals and cut down trees all yourself to build a house when experts have done it for you.

You will deal with people for the rest of your life. You will deal with yourself every moment of your life. Make both of these pleasurable. It’s your choice whether your conversations with people go the way YOU want.

When you consider all this, you can see your invest in the program gives you abundant returns that make it a wise decision.

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I have my name on the line because I want to be the world’s #1 communication skills teacher so you can be certain I do, and will continue to do, everything possible to ensure your happiness and success with my program. I give you the 365-day money-back guarantee along with an additional $194 out of my very own pocket.

Lastly, thank you for taking the time to educate yourself on the communication secrets of powerful people.

To your powerful success with people, from your friend,

Joshua Uebergang aka “Tower of Power”

P. S. Because I want your testimonial for this newly updated program, order your copy of the Communication Secrets of Powerful People Program today at its introductory price. Don’t risk losing your subsidy. Go get your copy because I’m holding any risk you might have. If my program hasn’t taught you what you wanted to discover, simply use my 365-day money-back guarantee and receive an additional $194 out of my very own pocket as an apology for wasting your time.