Great to hear you’re a curious person. Hold onto that trait!

Thank you for your encouraging words and suggestion. I’ve done very little work with children, though it does interest me in the future. My mum is a teacher so her students get a few emotional intelligence tips

I was close to doing something with Today Tonight here in Australia three weeks ago, but that fell through. Awaiting your call If that’s your dream, chase it with a passion. Now, I’m sounding like a self development leader!

You have something very special happening here. I highly suggest you approach someone like the Dept of Education and promote your course through our school curriculum.

As an Aussie, I’m so proud. I know I’ll see you on a major talk back show in the states in the near future. Unless of course, I get my own talk back show here in Australia by then, then I’ll be calling you personally.

No, not everyone is insecure. Security means safety, while insecurity is the opposite. An insecurity can mean you feel anxious and become uncomfortable when “exposed”. A secure person feels comfortable with oneself.

Your comments boils down to self-improvement being fake. What deviates from your current self is NOT fake. You are creating a better self.

Revealing an inner vulnerability is extremely attractive. I wrote a report for Big Talkers called Seduction Secrets that teaches people to win friends by becoming vulnerable. If you look at the definition of insecurity, you’ll see that becoming vulnerable can take the power away from an insecurity.

there is a reason WHY i find aspie/epilepsy desirable in a significant other, IF she has the 2 conditions as well, then we can count on each other if more help is needed than the other can handle(like if she is having one heck of a seizure and it is more than what i can handle with common sense epilepsy first aid), and we would be able to RELATE and UNDERSTAND each other because there would be no need to go into details(like there would be with an NT) since we both understand each others neuro/psychological issues. other than that – she can have her own interests that i would very willingly encourage her to pursue an active part in, and i would also be willing to participate in as well(just so i can experience something different).

another reason why i find a woman with the aspie trait very desirable is because aspies not only do NOT lie, but also because they are also very loyal&faithful(the only one she would make love to is her own partner), and the breakup/divorce rate with the aspie/autie group is less than 0% – when with NT it is at least 80-85%. you do the math sweetheart. it is all about stability also.

And thanks Richard.
And I am so pleased that someone has actually listed aspie qualities under the topic “what men want in women”!!!
It has totally made my day and I will have to remember this in the future when I’m feeling like a freak I live in Australia BTW.

Oh, and if you really have your heart set on aspie traits and values, I saw a website ‘aspieaffection’ (there was a link on wrongplanet) Its for people wanting to meet other aspies for relationships/ friendships etc. I’m not sure if its any good, I just thought I’d pass on the info.