Effective Communication Skills for Good Relationships

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TowerOfPower.com.au

Tower of Power helps you develop the skills to build friends and influence people even if you’re an anti-social nerd with no people skills. You get the communication techniques and psychological skills to win friends in social situations, build love with family members, and influence people at work – including many other benefits of effective communication.

Josh

Joshua Uebergang aka 'Tower of Power'

My name is Joshua Uebergang (pronounced “you-burr-gang”) and I was probably the worst communicator in the world. If there was someone worse than me at making friends, influencing people, managing conflict, or handling emotions, I haven’t met the person.

This is what I’m really “about” and what sets me apart from 95% of communication coaches. I’m not an academic fuzz-head protecting myself from the real world. I don’t live on a mountain top in isolation claiming to have enlightenment. I don’t have a magnetic mind that mysteriously attracts the forces which surround me. I’ve been in the trenches of isolation, fights, you name it and had to crawl on my hands to get out.

Leil Lowndes, author of many great books including How to Talk to Anyone and How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You, in an interview for Big Talkers told me, “I admire your work so much. I think one of the unique things about you is that you have the persona and personality not of someone who is standing up on stage and pompously talking to people about these things [conversation skills]. You sound like the people who’d be viewing you or listening to you with whom you have shared your struggles and such. You are right there with them and I think it’s fantastic.”

The discovery of effective communication in personal, social, and workplace relationships isn’t easy. Communication training is filled with so much B.S. Corporate trainers teach useless theory and often live out the opposite of what they teach. I’ve met assertive trainers that can’t assert themselves, conflict management experts that run from their own conflict, and psychologists getting in bed with their patients to destroy the therapeutic process.

Most self-help teachers are no better. They are wishy-washy and vague. Though some have experienced pain to get where they are, which I admire them for, many are full of hype, as you can see just by reading their stuff. Some people group me into this “self-help guru category” because I motivate them, but that isn’t my goal; motivation is a by-product of my impact on them. I show clients how to build friends and influence people with their communication and personality through proven methods based on fields like psychotherapy, family therapy, neuroscience, popular psychology, and modeling world leaders in their field of expertise.

I don’t claim to be perfect because I’m human. In fact, that’s the last thing I want you to think of me. The more I learn, the more I see my problems. Each discovery I make awakens an obligation to teach my subscribers, my customers, my clients – you – about it. This blog and all my programs transcribe the thousands of hours learning and trying the techniques to build friends and influence people so you don’t have to go through what I did.

Visit here for a traditional “About Me” page and check out my personal blog joshuauebergang.com where you’ll get insight into my life and receive secret tid-bits of advice to be healthy, wealthy, and wise.

The Company

I choose “Tower of Power”® as the company’s name for two reasons: 1) it symbolizes what people know me for (my height and inspiring coaching, so I’m told) and 2) its strong meaning. A tower can stand alone or as part of a larger structure. Whatever the tower’s circumstance, provided it has a strong foundation and good materials, it remains tall and strong. Its strong presence enables its communications to travel distances other buildings cannot achieve. When you lay a strong foundation of confidence, self-esteem, and clarity, you give yourself the opportunity to build a successful life.

While many communication coaches teach you what to say, I hardly give you dialog to rehash on your test subjects. I get in the psychology (the real structure and make up) of a powerful communicator. Understanding these deep inner workings helps build yourself into a strong being.

Though Tower of Power is an Australian personal development company, it is in no way limited to Aussies. I teach people worldwide in over 120 countries spanning 6 continents. If you have access to the Internet, I can coach you.